What if after your doing it the stupid but fast way, he/she even loves you more, and then causes you to love him/her more? What would happen?
are these people masochists or something? okay, if they still love you after you fuck somebody else theres probably something really wrong with them…….. mommy issues, daddy issues, who knows. if i was in that situation i would use my brain and realize that if a guy ‘loves’ you more after you do something like that he has serious gotta save the girl -issues. ive met these guys. they think its cute that youre fucked up and they think that they can save you and change you for the better and fucking fix you or whatever - and its really annoying cause i actually happen to like myself and i dont need anybody to ‘save’ me. plus, you might wanna keep in mind that if you fall for that scheme its usually after youre fixed and fabulous that he thinks his work here is done and he just doesnt find you as cute and mysterious anymore as when you were a mess and soooo he will take off and say buh bye and leave you with even more fucked up than before with more trust issues than ever. if you wanna avoid people from your past, i recommend moving to another country. worked for me.
I LOVE your tumblr. I live in the US and I was wondering whats it like to live in Finland. Ive never been to Europe.
thank you! thats funny, ive always been wondering whats it like to live in the us! finland is um. boring. winter is fucking freezing. summers are short. rains a lot. nothing happens. ever. everybody knows everybody. legislation is fucked up: you rape somebody you get a pat on the back and 6 months parole - you kill somebody you can get away with free of charge! you steal couple of beers you go to jail for 2 years :) okay you dont need me ranting, sorry. so yeah it is absolutely boring and most of the time theres nothing to do and people are just rude and closed off and ugh. i will admit it that its really pretty with the lakes and the four seasons and stuff. anyways, dont go to finland. go to paris. go to barcelona. go to london. venice! i lovelovelove venice.
hmm. i cant really say since ive always been a smart girl and kept my distance so i never got to the love part so i never had to do the unloving process either. IF i ever lost my mind and accidentally let myself fall in love i would probably do it the stupid but fast way and just sleep with the guys/girls best friend/sister/brother/anybody and make em hate me first so that they want nothing to do with me ever again. then just drink excessively and keep busy and just get over it. i dont know. i have no morals and the not caring comes easily to me cause ive been like that for so long so my methods might not apply to all…….. so if youre a normal person and you just really need to get over someone just give it time. talk to somebody.