I understand what you mean. You're talking about those guys with issues. What they want is the satisfaction not from you as a soul but what can get from some action on you. But what if there is some guy who loves you simply because he appreciates you as who you are. He does not want to fix or save you as he already understands you are and appreciates you as who you are, without reason. He simply loves you and falls for you because YOU are his TRUE LOVE. What would you do?